Enough by Kate Graham
Love Lab (Uncensored)
Orgasm Gap
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Orgasm Gap

What is it and what can we do about it?

In this episode, Rebecca and Kate dive into the topic of the "orgasm gap," a well-documented phenomenon where men experience more orgasms in heterosexual encounters than women. They discuss a recent New York Times article and the underlying research that highlights this issue, particularly in straight, single individuals. 

The conversation explores the physiological and sociocultural factors contributing to the orgasm gap. It emphasizes the importance of shifting from a goal-oriented approach to sex to one that prioritizes pleasure. They also touch on how sexual orientation and relationship status can impact orgasm rates and why more inclusive research is needed. Tune in to hear their thoughts on how to create more satisfying sexual experiences and challenge limiting societal scripts.


References

Gesselman, A. N., Bennett-Brown, M., Dubé, S., Kaufman, E. M., Campbell, J. T., & Garcia, J. R. (2024). The lifelong orgasm gap: Exploring age’s impact on orgasm rates. Sexual Medicine, 12(3), qfae042. https://doi.org/10.1093/smoa/qfae042

Mahar, E. A., Mintz, L. B., & Akers, B. M. (2020). Orgasm equality: Scientific findings and societal implications. Current Sexual Health Reports, 12(4), 183-193. https://doi.org/10.1007/s11930-020-00237-9


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Enough by Kate Graham
Love Lab (Uncensored)
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