Enough by Kate Graham
Love Lab (Uncensored)
How porn can help your relationship
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How porn can help your relationship

In this episode, Kate and Rebecca dive into a sex-positive discussion on how pornography can be a tool for enhancing intimacy and sparking excitement in relationships. They explore the idea that sharing fantasies—whether through porn, erotica, or simple conversations—can help couples connect on a deeper level, creating space for vulnerability and open communication. Kate and Rebecca emphasize that it’s not about whether a couple watches porn together or not; it’s about finding ways to understand each other’s desires, share those interests, and use them to strengthen their bond.

They also discuss the importance of recognizing individual boundaries, starting small, and communicating openly about what feels comfortable in each partner's body. By exploring various types of porn—feminist, ethical, audio, or even written—partners can find the medium that feels right for them, without judgment or pressure. Kate and Rebecca provide insights on how couples can begin these conversations and slowly integrate fantasy into their relationship, offering practical steps for building a more vibrant and connected sex life.


This podcast explores themes related to sex, parenting, relationships, and mental health. Content may include candid discussions, personal experiences, and expert insights. While we aim to provide valuable and engaging information, please be aware of mature and explicit content. Listener discretion is advised. This podcast is not a substitute for professional therapy or medical advice. For any medical or mental health concerns, please consult with a licensed healthcare provider or therapist.

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Enough by Kate Graham
Love Lab (Uncensored)
Hosted by two sex therapists, The Love Lab (Uncensored) offers candid and thoughtful guidance on a wide range of topics related to sex, love, and relationships.
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